Wednesday, December 12, 2012

A tool of happy marriage



I think that it is not easy to forgive or accept someone's short coming.
However if we can think this way, it will become much easier.
Everyone has a limitation. I think limitation has a challenging spirit.

I can accept and forgive someone's limitation and same as my own limitation.
And I can keep challenging to become better person.

And there is one more thing  I realized.
I try to be happy when my husband is happy. I am happy when I am trying to make him happy.

I think this is the key of the happy relationship of husband and wife.


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 It is most important to teach young people about the sanctity and value of marriage.

We marry not for ourselves but for the sake of our partners.
When looking for a spouse, it is wrong to look only for a beautiful face or for a person living well.

Human beings must live for the sake of each other.

World Peace starts with peaceful families that create peaceful societies and eliminate conflict among countries. This will lead to World Peace.

Marriage is not something that involves just the bride and groom.

When a white person and a black person marry, it contribute to reconciliation between the two races.

"Why did I marry this man? If I hadn't married this man, I would have had a better life." is setting the tone for a marriage that will be hell.

Marriage is not a simple matter of a man and woman of marriageable age coming together and combining their two lives.

Marriage is something built on the basis of sacrifice.
The man must live for the sake of  the woman, and the woman for the sake of the man.

As you continue to live for the sake of your spouse, your selfish mind disappears completely.

Love is not a man and woman meeting each other and having a good time.
Love is offering up your life. ~As a Peace-Loving Gloval Citizen

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Monday, November 5, 2012

Monday, October 8, 2012

I wonder who will be able to go to Heaven?

I wonder who will be able to go to Heaven?
If people feel guilty for what they have done because of their conscience, I think that  they cannot go to Heaven.

Everyone has a conscience which has many levels.

Therefore we cannot lie or hide for our conscience.
Even if we could lie to others, we cannot lie to ourselves.

The guilt makes us suffer forever. That is Hell.

Family is the core for the world.
We have to make peace in our family to make world peace.
Family members should not feel guilty for each other.

Husband and wife should not make secret, also between parent and children.
They should not be two faced.

It is a good time to confess everything before new year 2013, and we can have a new start.


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The family is the only institution created by God.
It is the school of love where people can learn how to love each other and live together in peace,
and it is the training center where we practice how to build a palace of peace in the world.

It is where we learn how to become a husband or wife who will live for the sake of our spouse and how to become a husband or wife who will travel on the eternal path of love.

The family is the base camp for world peace, and it must be such that the children will say, "We have never seen mother and father fight."

 ~~~As a Peace-Loving Global Citizen

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  I went to see a football game in West Point for the sake of my husband.

Saturday, September 8, 2012

I received the most precious thing from the most precious person.

My husband and I have been married for 30 years  on July 1st 2012.

 I had often thought why God gave this man to me.
Now I feel  that I am so happy and lucky to be married  with him.

 I had never dated  any other man before  marriage.

 I think it helps to keep our marriage. 
Because I did not have anyone to compare with my husband as  my spouse.

 I often thought that I never want to marriage with another man, because it is not easy  to love one man for me to share my life.

 Now I am so proud I have one man  whom  Rev Moon gave to me as a my spouse.
I received the most precious thing from the most precious persons who are Rev .Mrs Moon we call them  True Parents.

Peace maker

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 Chastity before marriage and fidelity in marriage are of utmost importance.
This is what I teach so people can live to their highest potential as human beings, creating and maintaining healthy families.

 Marriage is more than a simple coming together of a man and woman.
It is a precious ceremony of commitment to carry on God's work of creation.
Mariage is the path by which a man and woman become as one, create new life, and establish true love.

 Through marriage, a new future is created; Society are formed; nation are built.
God's world of peace is realized with married families at the center.
It is in the family that God's Kingdom of Heaven is brought about.

 So husband and wives must be centers of peace. Not only must there be love between husband and wife, but the couple must also be able to bring harmony to their extended families.
It is not enough that the husband and wife live well together in love.
All the relatives must love each other as well.  .........................

 However, the doors of love are designed by God and are to open only when the time is right.
Children must understand that they need to wait for the right time.
Love is a process by which we grow to resemble God.
Despite what the world may tell us, it is not something to be enjoyed anytime we please.

 Why we say, "Do not give a knife to a child"? The child might understand how to cut with a knife, but he cuts without control.  ......                                            
                                                                      ~As a Peace-Loving Global Citizen