The Greatest Miracle in the World by Og Mandino

Good sex and Bad sex

  Rev. Moon matched us 30 years ago.
I remember that it happened just like yesterday. 

When I met my husband, I couldn't speak English very well.
 I had never spoken English with Western person until meeting with my husband. 

 We communicated each other through writing down to a paper (napkins in the restaurant)

 But we committed each other to marry

 We attended the marriage ceremony in the Madison square garden at 1982.
At that time we pledged to make an ideal family under God for World Peace.

 We are still together, because we committed to be  together in front of God.
Unfortunately some people divorced, but it is a few numbers compare with outside of  the church. 

 I would like to say that a commitment is so important and it should be public.
Let's everyone know our commitment.

 Our mind should lead and subjugate our body.

But free sex is opposite.
Body is  leading and controls Mind.
 They do not commit each other and keep changing their partner.
 It is wrong.

When we make a goal, we will make an effort to reach a goal with subjugating our body.

We can not make an ideal family through free sex.
How can we trust each other as a husband and wife?

We can make an ideal family , ideal world through absolute sex which means keeping pure until marriage, and using it only with spouse.

1 Corinthians 6:16-20

The Message (MSG)

^16-20 There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.” Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never “become one.” There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love, for “becoming one” with another. Or didn’t you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don’t you see that you can’t live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.

Power of Human Righs Education

Please click below.
This is the video of Human Rights Education which was showed in the UN (Human rights event)  last month.

http://path-to-dignity.org/film-english

Human rights education is absolutely necessary.
 Because  God loves each one of us as His children.
Therefore we should respect each other as our brothers and sisters even if we have a different religions or races, poor or rich , and women or me0n.

I think that World Peace will come through the Human rights education.
What do you think?

The Leopard and The Baby Monkey

A tool of happy marriage

I think that it is not easy to forgive or accept someone's short coming.
However if we can think this way, it will become much easier.
Everyone has a limitation. I think limitation has a challenging spirit.

I can accept and forgive someone's limitation and same as my own limitation.
And I can keep challenging to become better person.

And there is one more thing  I realized.
I try to be happy when my husband is happy. I am happy when I am trying to make him happy.

I think this is the key of the happy relationship of husband and wife.


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 It is most important to teach young people about the sanctity and value of marriage.

We marry not for ourselves but for the sake of our partners.
When looking for a spouse, it is wrong to look only for a beautiful face or for a person living well.

Human beings must live for the sake of each other.

World Peace starts with peaceful families that create peaceful societies and eliminate conflict among countries. This will lead to World Peace.

Marriage is not something that involves just the bride and groom.

When a white person and a black person marry, it contribute to reconciliation between the two races.

"Why did I marry this man? If I hadn't married this man, I would have had a better life." is setting the tone for a marriage that will be hell.

Marriage is not a simple matter of a man and woman of marriageable age coming together and combining their two lives.

Marriage is something built on the basis of sacrifice.
The man must live for the sake of  the woman, and the woman for the sake of the man.

As you continue to live for the sake of your spouse, your selfish mind disappears completely.

Love is not a man and woman meeting each other and having a good time.
Love is offering up your life. ~As a Peace-Loving Gloval Citizen

Unbelievable, but it is True.

 This is unbelievable.
 But it is true story.

Please look at this video.

https://vimeo.com/52526170

I wonder who will be able to go to Heaven?

I wonder who will be able to go to Heaven?
If people feel guilty for what they have done because of their conscience, I think that  they cannot go to Heaven.

Everyone has a conscience which has many levels.

Therefore we cannot lie or hide for our conscience.
Even if we could lie to others, we cannot lie to ourselves.

The guilt makes us suffer forever. That is Hell.

Family is the core for the world.
We have to make peace in our family to make world peace.
Family members should not feel guilty for each other.

Husband and wife should not make secret, also between parent and children.
They should not be two faced.

It is a good time to confess everything before new year 2013, and we can have a new start.


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The family is the only institution created by God.
It is the school of love where people can learn how to love each other and live together in peace,
and it is the training center where we practice how to build a palace of peace in the world.

It is where we learn how to become a husband or wife who will live for the sake of our spouse and how to become a husband or wife who will travel on the eternal path of love.

The family is the base camp for world peace, and it must be such that the children will say, "We have never seen mother and father fight."

 ~~~As a Peace-Loving Global Citizen


  I went to see a football game in West Point for the sake of my husband.