Haney, tell me what I should do.

when my husband came back last night. I served some foods with soup.
And I asked how to fix something in the computer, then I got some kind of answer.
I got inspired and stood up to go to computer room.

My husband shouted where is spoon?, I immediately brought it.

I should not leave the dinner table, even if just a simple supper.

My daughter said to me " Mom you should ask Dad to say "please", it is not polite. Since Dad treats his wife like this, I am not interested about marriage" She was upset.

I said to her that I do not care what my husband said to me. It is such a small thing. I don't waste my energy for concerning what he said.
I care how to keep peace in my mind in any kind of circumstances.
We can not control people, and we should not. We only can control ourselves. It is self control. It is very important.
I am so proud of my answer.

In the next morning, my daughter upset for my husband again, saying that "Do not tell me what I should do."
I spoke out "Honey tell me what I should do"
My husband said "bring a spoon."
I said "That is easy. you do rest of that. we are " love love couple"."
I gave a hug to my husband.

~Peace Maker